Count it all Joy? Are you serious? Everything? How do you do that when there is low joy and high conflict or low connection relationships?My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. James 1:2-4.We will talk about this verse and also discuss another Dr. Wilder book, "Joy starts here."The brain craves joy!Attachment is built on joy!Joy is a need, and it is a command.We will talk about what JOY is (spoiler alert, not Jesus, Others, and You) as we have been taught.We will talk about what joy is not....It is not stoicismIt is not toxic positivityIt is not denial of trials and painIt is not hyper spiritualityJoin us to find out what is TRUE JOY and how even to build Joy when life and/or marriage is hard, stressed, high conflict, no connection, finances are hard, and life is just not what you thought it would be.