**This episode may not be suitable for all listeners**Profanity and sensitive topicshttps://www.reclaimurmarriage.comhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/tammy-cox-884b7a30https://www.facebook.com/tammy.cox.543https://www.instagram.com/tammyncox7https://twitter.com/tamncoxSummary:In this conversation, Karen Walker Cohn interviews Tammy Cox, a transformational coach specializing in reviving intimacy in marriages. Tammy shares her personal journey of healing from childhood trauma and how it led her to create the Reclaim Your Marriage program. They discuss the importance of inner healing, taking responsibility for one's own happiness, and the power of shifting perspectives in relationships. Tammy emphasizes that anyone can save their marriage by focusing on personal growth and inspiring their partner to change. She also highlights the role of trauma as a protective mechanism and the opportunity for reprogramming negative beliefs. The conversation explores the power of beliefs, the ability to change meanings, and the importance of choosing new thoughts. It emphasizes the idea that there is nothing in life that cannot be changed. The speakers discuss the role of trauma and how it can be reframed and transformed. They also touch on the significance of religious beliefs and the need to have an open mindset. The conversation concludes with a message of empowerment and the reminder that the kingdom of heaven is within us.Takeaways:Tammy Cox's Reclaim Your Marriage program empowers women to save their marriages, even if their spouses are not on board.Inner healing and personal growth are essential for reviving intimacy in relationships.Taking responsibility for one's own happiness and shifting perspectives can lead to positive changes in a marriage.Trauma is a protective mechanism and an opportunity for reprogramming negative beliefs. Beliefs shape our reality and it is possible to change them.Trauma can be reframed and transformed by changing the meanings we attach to it.Having an open mindset allows for personal growth and transformation.The power to change lies within ourselves and we can choose new thoughts and beliefs.Religious beliefs should be open to interpretation and not limited to a fixed understanding.The kingdom of heaven is within us and can be experienced in the present moment