Wherein we reflect on the influence of music when you discover it on your own or with women friends. Deadhead Girl Stefanie talks about living in San Francisco in the 2000s, studying art at Jerry's art school, finding her "chosen sister" in the Dead community, and celebrating ourselves through dance. We talk about the scarier sounds in the music and learning to trust that beauty will always return. Credits:Host: Stef TarasAudio editor: Liam KadelMusic: "Deep Ellum Blues" performed by K.C. Groves (guitar), Sally Van Meter (lap slide guitar), and Abigail Washburn (vocals). Audio engineer: Eric Wiggs.Show art: Lisa F'n Armstrong of Ajuga, Inc., and SparklesKate