It's raining episodes! Are you a fan of "The Bachelor", a sucker for "Love is Blind" or lover of "90 Day Fiancé"? We're so sorry for presenting this ugly peek behind the curtains, it can really take the fun out of watching this stuff when you know what the actors/subjects/contestants are subjected to. Fallon breaks Ash's heart as she tells her about how the producers pull a lot of strings behind the scenes to get the narrative that they want. They manipulate people and use culty tactics on the reality stars to present the story that they think we'll most enjoy (and they're unfortunately right). Why can't we have nice things?!✨If you'd like access to over 125 episodes that aren't on the regular feed, and you'd like them all ad free, join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month! There is actually now a new FREE version that you can try with no commitment! https://www.patreon.com/TSFUMake sure to subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@tsfuthepodcastlive️Visit That's So Fcked Up's Website: https://tsfuthepodcast.com/Support our work and get all kinds of nifty perks: https://www.patreon.com/TSFU☕️Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tsfuthepodcastSubscribe to our podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-so-fcked-up/id1508752329or Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zo86q0aYvNSg8prn1k73N?si=590fae149eb24218Follow TSFU on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tsfuthepodcast/Follow Ash on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyloverichards/Join our Discord community: https://discord.gg/c2HwBUDsUx-Research assistance by Peggie Brott.-Audio editing by Ophelia Stone.-Sources:https://www.usanetwork.com/usa-insider/dating-reality-tv-show-rules-behind-the-sceneshttps://www.tiktok.com/@moreperfectunion/video/7263456938325970222https://www.ucanfoundation.org/https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/tv/2023/11/03/reality-tv-what-do-stars-owe/71306704007/https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/tv/2023/11/03/reality-tv-what-do-stars-owe/71306704007/https://www.businessinsider.com/love-is-blind-netflix-cast-reality-show-dating-mental-health-2023-4https://www.businessinsider.com/americas-next-top-model-tyra-banks-contestants-mental-health-2022-4https://www.seattletimes.com/nation-world/from-extreme-makeover-that-never-was-a-tragedy/https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/nsw/did-pirate-master-kill-cheryl/news-story/232fcfe8510274d2500c25a6aacaf679https://www.theatlantic.com/culture/archive/2020/01/the-retrograde-shame-of-the-biggest-loser/605713/https://www.cracked.com/image-pictofact-7747-29-reality-tv-shows-with-very-dark-downsidesWhat's the psychology behind our obsession with reality TV? (rte.ie)https://www.livescience.com/9820-biggest-loser-big-problems-health-experts.htm